Why men rape?

Interesting post… Read this other post as well, if you have time… It is pretty depressing though…

Why Men Rape : Interesting and Informative Article
“In the United States, a woman is sexually assaulted or raped every six minutes . 85% of victims know their attacker and 84% of rapes will go unreported.”

You may find thousands of article on rape victims on the Internet, but have you ever thought why men rape? How does an affectionate lover evolve into a hyped scavenger who leaps out at every single prey? Is it to satisfy their sexual desire or is it to prove that thy can overpower anything weak? Read to know the psychology of a rapist. Unfold the mystery of ‘why men rape’ to prevent the the most sensual act against women?

Expert psychologists define rape as a form of assault where one individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. Most experts believe the primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim rather than an attempt to achieve sexual fulfillment. They consider rape an act of violence rather than principally a sexual encounter. Here are some of the reasons according to the experts,

Two present day sociobiologist’s claim in their book that unsuccessful men use rape to gain sexual access to desirable mates. By making women pregnant, they proclaim to pass their genes on to the next generation. The above sentence may seem absurd as there are many inadequacies in this argument. For instance, if the primary concern of a rapist is to just procreate, then why do rapists attack the helpless elderly, menopausal women and innocent children? And has anybody thought about the number of murders made by the rapists as the dead bodies will never give birth. So one can conclude that these argument is baseless on many cases.

To get rid of frustration
Research states that some men do not ejaculate during rape. This proves that whatever is driving this section of men to rape is more than the sexual drive. In one of the interview by the rapists, they say that, “We rape women who need to be disciplined. They do not want to talk to most people. They think they know better than most of us “. Here the rapists were using sexual assault to punish women who were not being genuinely feminine in their thoughts and work. They vent out their anger and frustration on a situation. However one can neither identify sexual drive nor the act of procreating. Men rape because they believe they have the right to control and to punish women who do not obey their rules of behaviour.

Right to control
Rape is about power, not sex. A rapist uses actual force or violence or the threat of it to take control over another human being. Some reports state that rapists use drugs to descend a person’s ability to fight back. It has become an expression of unequal power relations between men and women. Such unequal power relations are not the result of nature or evolution but societies. Society has always drawn a margin to the women community, if they seem crossing it they are subject to grand victimization.

Biological reasons
Biologically men rape because they are flooded with hormones, and are overwhelmed with sexual desire. These rapists are typically teenagers who engage in acquaintance rape or date rape Whatever may be the reason the prime concern of an individual is, can I change these facts as a historical report and recreate a better place to live in safe Rape takes place only when men learn to rape, and it can be eradicated simply by substituting new lessons. Enhance the essence of equal responsibilities, love relationships and the sense of being loved and to love. Understand him, to evolve him into a finer being.

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  1. #1 by MANI on January 24, 2009 - 5:37 am

    hi west roast

  2. #2 by juili on January 24, 2009 - 5:39 am

    no reason for that particularly human is a social animal.

    he may weat court suit,can talk illusion,global worming,against torrism, but his cells and hormons never be like to be social and calm in such cases

    he can control his needs other wise he is man of wild

  3. #3 by Brjcogju on May 7, 2009 - 7:07 pm

    b0OajI comment2 ,

  4. #4 by SON OF JESUS on December 20, 2009 - 8:35 am

    I rape because it is instructed of me in the bible.

  5. #5 by Judith on January 14, 2010 - 10:15 pm

    No the Bible says it is wrong to rape. I dont know where you get your information but in Leviticus and Deut -and I Cor -you are punished for raping. If you were a true Christian you wouldn’t be raping sorry.

    JS

  6. #6 by inthemidblogger on April 17, 2010 - 12:32 am

    I think rape, like other bad choices probably doesn’t have one root cause for that drives people to do it. There are probably different reasons that different rapists have.

  7. #7 by sha... on May 1, 2010 - 4:30 am

    when i was 28 i raped in doctor office. this is my werry bad memorry in my life.

    in my contry we have to be virgin when wen get marry.

    after that i hate men.

    i dont get married until die.

    why?

  8. #8 by sha... on May 1, 2010 - 4:35 am

    i research about rape victims now…

    help me please…

  9. #9 by blow on July 18, 2010 - 2:13 am

    i love to rape woman i did it to obamas wife!!!!!!!!

  10. #10 by Hellzgate on August 19, 2010 - 2:51 pm

    I am a 38yo female, I was raped when I was 16 and again when I was 19. This may sound odd to a lot of ppl but I love the feeling of a mans strength used against me. It makes me feel like the weaker sex and unless I’m forced to have sex I don’t get that feeling. I don’t care if he is old or ugly all I want is to fight him untill I’m too exausted to do it anymore. If he is not strong enough to overpower me I’m not interested in him. If he puts his hands around my throat and orders me to perform any act I find this a huge turn on and will do so with just enough fuss so he will continue. Maybe men who rape just need to find women who want to be raped. I have over the years found such men and it has worked well from both sides. Society is so fixated on elivating or distroying certain behavioral patterns because they decide its acceptability when it really should be about finding ones own right place. I don’t bitch about ppl that just want to experiance sex in a bed in a certain position,but I will say this “my god how utterly boring”.

  11. #11 by lady godiva on November 15, 2010 - 4:07 am

    i was forced 2 have sex recently, wasnt sure if i was raped cause i like the guy, but it left me feeling vulnerable and weak, which totally opposite of how i normally feel

  12. #12 by Dorothy Nicholson on March 25, 2012 - 4:51 pm

    Men who rape women and children should be surgically castrated.

  13. #13 by Amy on August 20, 2012 - 8:54 pm

    Where did you read that some men don’t ejaculate while they rape? I bet it’s true, but I’d like to know where the research came from.

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