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Comment on Call from HDFC by joyofreadinglinson

joyofreadinglinson — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 09:51:32 +0000

A similar conversation with me went a little further…..

Caller: “May I have reference of you friends Sir?…..

Now this may solve your puzzel….

Comment on Typical South Indian Brahmin Wedding by Jazz

Jazz — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:46:59 +0000

Well said udayms….

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by karthick

karthick — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:12:10 +0000

i see many brahmin whores in college……

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by bharath

bharath — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:04:39 +0000

Hi i am not caste oriented but I would like to mention one thing. I am least bothered whether this girl marries a fucking SC/ST or MBC caste. but I object to wat she said regardin brahmin guys take 30 yrs to settle.The backward caste ppl are big assholes that they are being given reservation in all fields to improve their standards of living. thats y they settle before 30 and by 27 or 28. Whereas the brahmin guys are deprived of all these things and they struggle hard and because fo their industrious attitude , they come big in their life and thats y thats takes time.
If guys are all about muscular strength then this girl is not talking about marriage but she is talking about guys who can sexually satisfy her since SC/ST/MBC guys are more powerful(general assumption, even brahmins are good enough now). she is just one amorous fucking bitch who doesn’t know what the purity of marriage and its better u stop posting this kinda fucking articles . Seems like this girls neeed very muscular and young man to satisfy her sexual urge . Lastly i would like to say one thing.
“GO FUCK YOURSELF U BLOODY BITCH WITH THESE SC/ST/MBC guys”

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Jess

Jess — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:48:08 +0000

I don’t know I did the right decision. In one way he has been so nice and sweet to me with his strong will I never seen in any guys and the fact that he keeps his promise, he improves and did what he told me since his birthday in May.

But like a second personality, he always make mean and rude joke, which I’m ok in normal time but when i was in stress or in a bad shape, he still give me the ass joke….. the worse thing is he knew that well but refuse to change because he thinks I’m too sensitive and need help (he think he is the oonly ne who can help) and he thinks his way is the best!

Oh mind…. i’m giving up but so confused.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Jess

Jess — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:30:04 +0000

Ladies,

Tonight is the first time my Taurus told me he loves me, it was supposed to be the ‘I love you too’ moment for me but I called it over. I couldn’t take it anymore. Its been a while that I feel the more we fall for each other, the more he manipulate me even what I should and should not feel… and it happened again tonight.

The sad part is I don’t know if I’m sad or not… I know I want to be with him but I can’t lose myself to be with him. Its so extreme feeling that one moment he made me feel the great love, the next minute I feel like suffocating… He is the great guy but he is also the ass…

I don’t want to feel extremely up and down like this.

I just parted with him and so tired to write more in details. I need some sleep and hope I realize better tomorrow if i made the right decision.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by teenscorp

teenscorp — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:16:15 +0000

I am only 16 and recently got dumped by my Taurus boyfriend, also 16. I know I’m young, but I really loved this boy and I thought he loved me too. We only went out for 5 months, but I really felt like I had found my soul-mate. We had a great summer and then school started and everything started to fall apart. We never had sex, but we did get to second base. Right before school started, my mother got a phone call from his mother saying that she thought the relationship was going too fast (she had read his text messages). Two days later school started. We go to different schools and I was starting a new school. I started telling him about all the new people I was meeting, and yeah I made the mistake of saying that there were a lot of cute guys. I know, I know. What was I thinking. Well, right after that and the phone call from his mother, he started acting weird. He didn’t want to do things anymore; he seemed distant and disinterested in everything I had to say. He told me some of the things I said were ‘irrelevant”. I thought he was just busy with school and soccer and his guy friends. I tried not to be smothering. We saw each other a lot during the summer, so it was becoming frustrating to me not to able to see him. I would see him once about every two to three weeks. In the meantime, I went out with my girl friends. When we did see each other, we had a good time, but he didn’t want to make out or anything. He told me I was obsessesed with him and the idea of sex. This is after he brought up the subject of sex, and I told him I didn’t want to have sex because I was too young and afraid. WTF. Oh, and he also told me that I was obsessed with him. This is the same boy who asked me during the summer what I would say if he asked me to marry him. He told me he thought about us being married and living together when he got older. Everynight he texted me and told me he loved me. So, anyway, one day he texted me and we were talking. I said something and he replied so. I lost it and said “you know when you say that to me, that makes me feel like you don’t like me, you’re not interested in anything I have to say”. I blurted out that maybe we needed a break. He jumped at that, and broke up with me. He said his feelings had changed. He said he was glad he met me, I was a good person and was going to make some other guy really happy. I was devastated. I emailed him 2 days later, to apologize (for what?) and told him that I loved him even though he didn’t love me and I know I can’t change that. I reminded him of all the good times and asked if maybe we could remain friends. I never heard from him. I waited 2 weeks, and couldn’t take it any longer. So I texted him again (on my birthday). I told him that I was going to unfriend him facebook, because it was too hard for me to pretend he was my friend and I didn’t want to see pictures of him and any new girlfriends. I told him I was confused about what happened. I asked him if he got my email and he said he did, but didn’t respond because “it’s not like we’re dating or even communicating with each other.” Then, he said “It’s not like we’re going to get back together anytime soon, and my contacting him wasn’t going to change that.” OMG, then he got so mean. Of course, he denied ever talking about getting married in the future–told me it was all in my head and I twisted what he said. He told me to forget about him, not to text him anymore because he wasnt’ going to respond to me and then he told me “I just realized that I don’t like you at all and I’m not attracted to you in anyway”. He told me to unfriend me or he would delete me as a friend. I told him my friends were right, he is an a__hole. then I went downstairs and unfriended him. It’s been 2 weeks and we haven’t had any contact. I have no intention of contacting him again. but I keep hoping that he will contact me. I don’t know if I would go back to him or not at this point. He hurt me so much. But I do still love him and can’t really believe he meant those things he said to me. I can’t believe he said I was obsessed with sex. A day before he breaks up with me, he asks me when I think I might be ready to have sex! I feel used and lied to. I really wanted to believe him and I really did think we had a future together. I know we’re only 16, but I really thought of him as my best friend and soul mate. I told him things I never told anyone else. I really miss him and wonder if he misses me and thinks at all about me. I guess I need to take his advice and forget him and move on.

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by aditya

aditya — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:44:09 +0000

if you are saying that all brahmins guyy are not a person to whom an girl wanted to loeve than you are wrong… what you thnk the definition of real male… only brod soulder and musculer body. my dear friend you are wrong. the real man is the person who are able to fight with odds…
today lot of odd things are coming in the way of a brahmin guy. but still not only we are doing good but still leading the indian socity. see in every field we are the leader . we are the winner.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by V

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 02:00:46 +0000

yepp time did work..patience… just doing my own thing stayin relaxed happy…..& hes backk! finally heard from him… got all the answers,& its good now.
g’luck to the rest of you

Comment on Jodha Akbar – Distorted History? by pushpendra singh

pushpendra singh — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 12:58:06 +0000

i think akbar is a great king

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by moddalsatti

moddalsatti — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 02:41:56 +0000

Great article.Honestly, it looks like you were fucked and dumped later by a Brahmin Guy.

What was your name again ?

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 03:49:42 +0000

thanks Lionsroar…..
I am so tired of my taurus mans games I have had quite enough!!! My taurus got so jealous when I told him that I went out and screwed someone else…. We aren’t even together he has god knows how many different personalities on yahoo I told one of his personalities that I screwed someone and he about went unglued I mean he was so jealous he wanted to know why I didnt bring the guy back to my place and everything! He even told me to stop my shit! I told him to stop his and has he done it of course not! I mean he is out having one night stands all the time and he is never home on the weekends I wrote him a message tonite telling him that this was my last attempt for him to be with me otherwise he has got to go! I don’t expect him to do anything he will probably try to talk to me with his personalities but I will get rid of them too…… I have no idea why taurus men are so insecure and why they have to play so many games.. Why everything has to be so hard to be with them…..You have to wait and wait for them but if you are doing the same thing as them they sure don’t like it at all. I am not the one to be controlled and he can have the one night stands for all I care if he doesnt make up his mind…..he is the one losing out that is for sure!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by lionsroar

lionsroar — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 13:11:44 +0000

Lioness (and all) saw my living statue(ha they all seem to be built that way dont they) briefly last night. Yep we will be traveling.. However he appeared to have that sense of power and control is mine attitude. I think because I met so quickly after my trip. Long story short typical, blah blah, yadda, yadda evening. Very nice. Towards the end I mad a comment being funny saying something to the tune of “why is it always your way, selfish man..dont you know Im use to always getting my way”.. Mind you I was smiling and laughing.. WOW..talk about the living statue turning to stone.Damn! he replied “well I’m not your last guy” with a very stern face. I was like, Oh shit!! We werent talking about pasts/partners.. I NEVER DO THAT, I like the past to stay there and I dont want to know his. Unless he was jack the ripper in a past life, I dont care. Anyway god knows I hate to be put in my place or scolded so I smiled and looked at him and said, “hmm… maybe you better start being a little nicer, the other guy is out there, and with that shitty attitude your going to replace him with the new title of MY LAST GUY”.. hahaha.. Cant wait to see how long it take to hear from him now… touche!!! Halloween here in the states, Happy Halloween everyone.. be safe and have a great day. dont forget your mantra’s “I want to be happy, I want to be healthy, I want healthy relationships.. I accept all things and people into my life that are good”….. Peace out.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 21:05:58 +0000

I totally agree with you Lionsroar….. I think the taurus man likes the domination. They want more of you when they think that you don’t care and they want less of you when they think that you are all over them….. I have began to not give a shit anymore about what my taurus man does and he seems to be coming back for more and more…..

Comment on The TAURUS Man by saggi girl

saggi girl — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 14:15:28 +0000

Jena Ali,
glad to know you are an asian too. Are you dating a taurus from a different culture. if so, that would be even tougher…

I have never read that entire book but glanced a little bit. In general, it was just talking about ” women need to have their own life and always be confident. do not be needy and demanding. and always keep yourself busy. Do not talk a guy into a relationship but creat a atmosphere to draw a guy in.. Emotional talk does not work with a guy if he does not feel the same way as you felt for him, it will scare him away eventually.”

something is like this throughout the book, but i would think if you need a little bit education, you probably can order the book online… it does help me a little bit when my taurus was dealing with temporary school assignment when we first dated… God, i was like a needy girl, he said ” no guy can deal with this kind of girl.” Actually, we broke up right after that, as i can not control my feeling for him and wanted his attention whenever i felt like it, i was not stable and one minute we were ok and then next minute i called him to find out where we were standing…I was kind of treating him as the center of my life… Since my taurus comes from western culture, they are more independent, which makes me to him as a needy person… he told me that i stressed him out…

But i adjusted myself after reading a few books, focusing on myself and be happy with myself, then we are closer to each other little by little, i still asked him some emotional questions, but i can see he is ok with it now… and he told me that i changed a lot…

one thing is important for us to remember is that do not ever lose yourself for a man, you can love him but not lose yourself for him like Lionsroar said that a guy was drawn to you by your identity when he first met you, but if you lost your identity, there is no more reason for them to stay for… as the thing there were drawn into you at the first place was gone..

Love a person with a respect for yourself…

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Jena Ali

Jena Ali — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 12:15:12 +0000

Jena ali,

Hi all,

Wellcome abroad V.
Saggy girl i am 100% agreed with you about taurus that it might just be his excuse to get away from V to simmer on his feeling when she is not around… Mine did that too with me.
V wait for him to contact first he will! i am sure soon he will start missing something & will turn his bull head to see around. (just sms your concern once and than stay still)

I can so relate to V’s phone scene its really astonishing that mine told me EXACTLY THE SAME and you know what when i caught his lie by telling him “you could have mailed me and you actually proved by your actions that you are not in love with me as you says”. He replied bluntly that i was trying to create a distance as we are so fast in our relationship and we need to slow down actually he was trying to evaluate his own feelings about me that was it love, simply a crush or something more deep?
Any way he is still around because of my strategy of being ignorant most of the time or you can say the Push and Pull thing.
lionsroar is so right as to have your own life just treat him as you treated him when you first met him when the less feelings were involved. Just be casual and don’t worry shift all the hard work to him if he is interested he will come running other wise this relationship will tear you apart and you will lose your confidence in yourself as mine has become a bit shaky now in just 8 months time. I did a terrible mistake of showing my love in return to him that ruined his desire to knock me down or pursue me “MAN LOVES THE GIRL WHO’S LOVE AND AFFECTION WILL BE GIVEN TO HIM AS A TROPHY” this i have come to know after so many mistakes and the damage already done in my relationship with my taurus
I so truly want yours to be a wonderful one.
I am so hope less with mine as now i have found out what went wrong but i love him so much I am looking forward to buy that CATCH HIM & KEEP HIM e-book .
DO ANY ONE HAS IT AND IS IT WORTH BUYING?
Please advise me on that!!! As i don’t know what to do as he has started to share and talk less and less and is not open emotionally as used to be before. or please advise me how to be connected to him emotionally is this book will really be helpful in this regard? by the way i am also an Asian girl living in Asia & order this book from U.S. is really really expensive for me!!!
Just don”t Know how to win him back

Comment on The TAURUS Man by V

Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:50:04 +0000

hahah yea thx saggi girl. i think it really doesnt matter if your the same sign girls r different from guys and will most likely react wayy different but w/e. the other funny thing is if we just dont give a damn like the guys maybe theyll care more & come closer to us! ??… im gonna have to wait it out a lil longer cuz idk wat to say anymore huhh
lol i feel i should share a dream i had last night…
in my dream both me & my taurus were holding eachother sideways just smiling happily at eachother in a small restroom..! (ohh shitt i hope this isnt a bad symbol) like they say our dreams can also be a part of our reality we are livin tryin to tell us something. w/e who knows. =)

Comment on The TAURUS Man by saggi girl

saggi girl — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 13:52:17 +0000

Hi V.

it is funny that you are a taurus dealing with another taurus and got fraustrated with his behavior. did you guy get back on communication again? or you are still waiting for him to call or his phone is still broken? if you have already been back on communication again, let the past go for now… but be cautious and watch his behavior…

I am sure if a taurus want you, he will find a way to find you. It could be true that he lost your number( but he could email you right?) or it could be just a lie that he met someone else or he got what he wanted( it depends how close you are to him now) or he got scared that he promised something too quick. Mine was talking about moving in with me at the beginning and then he backed off after he visited his father. I think it might just be his excuse to get away from you to simmer on his feeling when you are not around…

i do not know, it is just my brainstorming…. Hope you are doing ok..

Comment on Chandrayan, India’s historic moon mission by prem

prem — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:28:44 +0000

Really i am very proud to be an India—–Jai….ho…

Comment on The TAURUS Man by V

Thu, 29 Oct 2009 05:14:04 +0000

interesting…! kept an eye on this site for a lil while.

im also a taurus girl. new to this taurus-taurus relationship thing.. lol. 2months so far.. ( I THINK!) &already ive become nervous and fustrated wit this taurus of mine. first couple weeks went very well… then i had to go long distance.(&why is it we “usually” deal wit taurus men long distAnce?) anyways.. he gave me his word.. he wants a relationship & said he hopes we make it together all the way even for marriage of corse. Now weve sort of lost some communicaiton through telephone/email. i get info on how his phone broke and he had lost my number.. & had asked my cousin for my number….( could be true or it could be a lie) know the easy excuse of “broken phone”. who knows just yet. ive been taken it easy for some time now… but its really gettin to me NNOOOWWW!!
i wanna know wtf.. should i wait..i know i can wait..i can understand but i dont wanna waste my time “again” like i did wit the last m.f. waited “patiently” until i found out he had gotten engaged to someone else while playing these fuckn games wit others.(was the aries one by the way).

it can be tricky.. put all your trust in him and who knows wat happens next. i can feel the same way as the taurus man but just because im taurus too deosnt mean we are going to be 100% alike.. yes i have to say, i do get moody &shit.. most of the time i can be good happy nice… but when i have things running through my head about this relationship on how its going to be.. how will it go..am i really happy wit him or am i just being fooled by his attractivness(LoL).
is it that difficult for him to just let me know wats up and all just so i know hes still there for me..am i right!? oh or maybe we can be a lil too lazy to really reply to our lovers even though we care!>?! idk.
i can become veryyy bitchy and angry & i wanna see him but i cant.. i wanna do other things too besides just himhimhimm.. idk i get angry cuz i cant do them freely cuz i love him &just thinking of him. so its confusing to why we get very moody &changes. iv notice i usually get like this when i have a fear of loss…of corse im affraid to loose him after ive agreed to stick wit him now&forever.. so to loose will be bad change. &this is it I REALLYYYY do love him..
i will have faith in him that he will keep his word like i am keepin mine for him. its just that time is too valuable to loose if some deoesnt keep there word and thats the main scarey part were all worried about. patience is good but toooo longgggggg can actually drive me crazyy to wasted time waitin…thinkin about him 24/7.. but no knowing if even thinkin of me damn it!

omg..they do say taurus have good memory so is it possible for him to forget me! ohhhmyyy huh cuz usually i dont forget….. So he shouldnt also

Comment on The TAURUS Man by ่Jess

่Jess — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 03:07:08 +0000

WoW WoW WoW!!! Looks who is here!

So glad to hear from you again Lionsroar!

And you are absolutely right again that men are like women regardless of signs! Oh yeah flying suck! I hate it too. 12 hours.. yike! Being impatient like me, anything more than 3 hours is already not acceptable! LOL.

I’m just back from another trip with my Taurus. Very nice and very tired because we ride around so much with motorcycle to explor the city, never got so much aching in the butt like this before… lol.

Take care everyone!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by lionsroar

lionsroar — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:26:16 +0000

I’m gonna whip this thing across the airport. erghh… Ok yah I’m yappy tonight 3 glasses of wine and facing a 12 hour flight. yuck-o..have to finish up boarding soon. Anyway, The bull still loves his man-cave, but now ventures out LOTS with me, also.. he’s lost the crap.. perhaps he figured out that a Lion can take a bull down in more ways than one. Also, he has strangely morphed into THE MOST GENEROUS MAN I have even been with. I can no longer even attempt to offer to buy anything. Hey I’m not bitchen, I’m worth it . Also I have come to realize if I go somewhere with a male friend that he has never been he immediately states he always wanted to go there and perhaps we should. Case and Point I wont get home untill tomorrow from this business trip from hell but when I do I will be greeted by him the day after with a fabulous weekend he has been planning for he and I to go to a place that I just visited with a male friend two weeks ago. Like I said.. like us, breaks every bone in your body to get what you want.. Funniest part I stopped wanting him months ago and now he is showing me the sides of him I thought were there but gave up on because of his aloof style. I’m a leo, I love large, live large and love myself unconditionally. If you do not enhance my life you do not deserve a key to the kingdom but I will give you friendship. If you caught these guys attention back in the beginiing it was because you were your true self. Not obsessing about a relationship. Go back to being you, he’ll pick up the scent or hopefully get the hell out of the way so the right man can! Ok..gotta jet. SO HATE FLYING!!!!! XO

Comment on The TAURUS Man by lionsroar

lionsroar — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:08:04 +0000

sorry page 2, in a airport and my netbook BLOWS!… Ok night off.. please for the sake of yourselves. Go shopping, grab a spa day, your favorite food, movie buy some great undergarments.. nothing feels better than new socks, bra’s, underware.. treat yourself. Get bombed, cry, yap on the phone ..whatever. Just lover yourself for the night.. BE SELFISH! If you need a hug, hug yourseelf! Trust me, it works! Ok.. do I still have the bull? Bet your ass and I also still have all my friends and a full social calender. Going on 9 months and I was wishingnot to long ago
he would say, goodbye. But guess what, the more I would say, “not a problem, maybe another time, no big deal..” blah blah the more he came around. Moral of the story Taurus,Leo, Virgo all of them are like all of us.. THE MORE YOU CANT HAVE SOMETHING TOTALLY..THE MORE YOU CRAVE IT! Bottom line, if your meant to be, you will be! Ladies relax, look in the mirror and be thankful for a healthy mind, body and healthy friendships and relationships.. stay in that place and that is what you will draw into your world. No worries. Your all worth it, dont sell yourself short, be honest to yourself and know there is someone out there for you, the universe just hasnt freed them up yet. Its coming and it’ll be fabulous. For me I have no idea but I know nothing happens on chance and I have grown and learned so much and it will be worth it. But being the Leo I am.. yah those Taurus guys’ silent but deadly, very jealous and just too damn sweet with their steady demeanor. Kinda like Chocolate! hahaha

Comment on The TAURUS Man by lionsroar

lionsroar — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 00:52:19 +0000

WOW WOW WOW…. Hello new friends and old! I havent been here in what seems like eternity but like a pair of favorite shoes, everyone is still here and comfortable as hell. Well I’ve been reading over some of the new stuff and re-reading the old. Mine included. How fun! First and foremost anyone messing around with someone married or recently out of at relationship no less than 6 months. Put your hand out and offer friendship and put the other one over your mouth and shut up. Not worth it, dont share yourself with someone that isnt capable of sharing back! Men are like women regardless of a zodiac sign. C’mon girls, if we want it..we get it! If there is a will you better be damn sure we will find a way. Dont sell yourself short. If you died tomorrow do you want this bullshit to be your last thoughs. I certaintly hope the answer is no. A man that does not want to give 100% doesnt. A man that does not want to meet you half way ..doesnt. They do what you let them do. Period. It’s a dance; you move left, they move right. Like children on a tetrer totter; one goes up, the other falls down. Ok So now that I have woke everyone up. All of you need to take a night off.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by saggi girl

saggi girl — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 17:55:11 +0000

Scorpio,

i am sorry to hear that about your marriage. The funny part is that we have been hoping that we can get someone here who can share their experience about how she got his taurus in marriage. well, it seems that taurus is a trouble in every stages no matter what the relationship status are.

Based on my limited experience( i am dating a taurus who was seperating from his wife) is that you need to stop treating him nice and then he will feel that he is losing you. that is when he will thinking with a sense.

Taurus is not going to leave you for another woman if he is already in marriage as they do not like to change. but you need to make him to be in shock that you are going to leave him, then he will start thinking of changing in case he will lose you.

well, that is the only thing i can think of based on my taurus’s thought as far as i can see. when he mentioned to me about his going-to-be ex wife, what he said makes me think this way…hope it will help.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by SCORPIO

SCORPIO — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 15:25:03 +0000

I am so confused, I married a Tarus man, have 2 daughters, 2 dogs, and a home,i have been married since 1986, I am working a part time job, my husband is unemployed (machinist). He is very stobborn, dosent want to talk to me, all that we do is fight/argue, he dosent seem to want to find a job, when i say something to him about finding a job he tells me that he is making more than me on unemployment, but i also inform him that his unemployment is going to run out in DEC. then i will be making more than him. I found condoms in his coat pocket that he said he picked up along the road, he watches tv and drinks alot. I want to stay in this marriage because i love him and for my daughters but I getting very frustrated because he will not talk to me.please help me decide what to do.SCORPIO

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:43:55 +0000

u dont decide a generations performance by seeing its debue work but by seeing its final shots.u talking about the new generation holds no vital point as of now. lets c if things turn out good , but wats the use then to discuss about these issues aye

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:32:12 +0000

they was meant to refer nxt gen guys..this apllies to all of them and not specially to brahmins anyways

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:29:02 +0000

and for a matter of fact i found older generation brahmins more better than the new generations be it being good or bad….they not only lack the worldwide purview but also courage and dont think i havent seen better half of the going
but i love maths because it has logic

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:24:42 +0000

believe whatever u want to but its a fact u give 1 good person in that community and i shall point 100 others negating
As a small example u check the whole country be it the govt bodies, politics army etc u find these people at class positions but see how corrupt they are in nepotism or bribery etc

had the Gandhi family quit politics things would have been far better. they have been ruling for generations because they are able to attract people but not because they have done great.for the last 50 odd years see how the corruption poverty n such things have become so common .
and they justify by saying its a dog eat dog world
..
.. see i am not for a debate here anyway , although i know i can prove my point at all stages and also the fact remains that there are good people as well… after all humanity is universal
so i don judge a person my any race ..i just gave a statistic
i only dare any person to prove my stats wrong and
this is it

ps: going off the topic on specific boy brahmin issue anyway

good to see replies as always

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by suresh vasiraju

suresh vasiraju — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 07:29:04 +0000

I really like this comment want to give clarity to you.

in your views you can see the small because your age and experience also will count to do any comment. For example take a dance show the judge will see 10 people performance then he will decide the judgment. Means for a coin 2 faces i believe you saw only one face see second face new generation current generation analyze with other caste people then you can comment what ever you want.
regards
Suresh

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Confused Libra

Confused Libra — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 22:01:32 +0000

Update on My Taurus and I:

Much confusion laying ahead.

He took me out on my birthday after I had plan to go to Seattle for a half day trip (knowing he wants to spend time with me that morning). The restaurant of his choice and I ended up waiting for him for 15 minutes at the train station in the dark. It really isn’t much of where we chose to spend time together but I’d like to think that he’d care to ask if i have a preference without me having to ask him if i have a choice. That’s another thing and I don’t think much of it and his personality starts to show.

We watched a movie this Wednesday night and we discussed some issues after while in bed (and no SEX). I asked him if we’d work together to increase our emotional intimacy as we had briefly discussed during my birthday dinner and how. He said one way is to hold off the sex and he fears that once we withheld the sex, part of the mental attraction will fade away as it seems like to be his strongest attraction to me. He admits that there is a 80/20 attraction for Physical/Mental. At some point during our conversation, I was sad (not upset) and I rolled away crying. He rolled toward me and embrace me with his body. His son woke up so I decided to leave while he attended to him, I think it was around 2am. Then next day, I sent him a text message asking him to call me during his down town at work. I asked him two questions.

1. base on what he said about his fear of losing mental attraction when sex is being withheld, does this mean SEX is the only thing he is in for?
2. If it is not the only thing that he is in for, does he have the interest and wellness to see what else is there through active communication?

His response were the following
1. Yes and No and there is a 80/20 attraction base on physical and mental
2. He wants to but not sure if he can. and now he is not sure if he is even ready for a long term relationship.

My response, it’s YES and NO question, I am confused of his response on question 1 and there is nothing long term if we can’t work together on short term for questions number 2. He said he certainly agrees of my point.

At the end, i asked him what he thought would be good for both of us. He wants to not see each other for 2 weeks and communicate via phone/email as desired. This lays more confusion and i am not sure if that means I should contacts him or that he will contact me?

I emailed him and asked him for clear 4 things or me
1. what are the purpose of our pause period? and what do we want to achieve? If we both want to use this time to build up emotional intimacy, then active communication is needed meaning we’ll need to communicate on a regular bases. If this is not what he has in mind, he’ll need to make it clear.
2. what happens when one of us have more desire to communicate and the other doesn’t? for example, i initiated more than 90% of the communication in the last month. what happens when there is no response from the other party after several, say three attempts? Do we want the other party to try again in a day or two or do we just let the communication die down?
3. What does he want us to do after the pause period? Do we try to reconnect with each other even if both of us have no desire to establish communication? or do we want to spend some time together to sort out the possibilities after some alone time to ourselves.
4. Will he be open to extend the pause period if one of us feel more time is needed if building a solid emotional bond is what we both long for?

His last question to me over the phone yesterday was:

How long would I tolerate this situation?(meaning that he is still married to his wife, have children, and hectic schedule, plus his main attraction to me is physical although he is not shy to say that there are more than physical attraction and we thoroughly enjoy each others company)

I told him that I understand and know his children will always come first, his children’s mother is there to stay in his life forever and because of the history they had together, i will respect whatever choices and agreements he has with her. To answer his question, I told him that I DONT TOLERATE, I will accept and be happy with it for as long as we both have the willingness to work things out together. and I will not Tolerate nor will I accept a relationship built solely on SEX.

I am anxious to hear about his responses to my 4 questions and the last thing he said after I answered his question on how far i’d go to tolerate our current situation was “REMARKABLE” so i think this is a compliment.

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:55:12 +0000

@gopal jayaraman
the msg is that they are the 2 sides of the coin and it so happens that its hard to find the better half nowadays

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:15:33 +0000

Leo,
I feel your pain I am a Lion myself so I know what you are going through!!! I felt like I was going in a wrong direction too but there is just something about the taurus man that gets me! I know that I am drowning face down I am very mad at mine for pretending to be other people and playing games and stringing me along….. then I tried to make him jealous by saying I had a fling and now he has this married woman over at his place and he has been gone all night and all day! It is all out of control but he still gets jealous still was checking up on me through my friend to see where she was be he knows that I ride with her alot…. I wrote mine a message asking him what his angle was and why was he had all of these personalities and stringing me along and told him I had had enough! I have a hard time with my feelings also it was very hard for me to tell him that I liked him in the first place. I am very guarded too I like to drive people away it seems like and I will pick fights and everything to do so! In your case, I see alot of similarities I also have another male friend who is a taurus and I have no interest in him what so ever but I think he is attracted to me also he is also wanting me to do something or whatever but I am not interested….. as for the guy you are interested in I see the same thing with my taurus they are jealous and so they will make themselves feel better in anyway that they can they are like us!!! Like having a one nite stand getting in a relationship that you know isn’t gonna go anywhere and so on to make themselves feel better. Taurus men like the thrill and like the chase and they are very insecure people on the inside they don’t show it on the outside but they are….. They also like to play alot of games, they sit back and watch things too… I was in a chatroom under an alias that mine didn’t know he found me everytime! I have no idea why he plays these games or really what the deal is but it is getting old and I ended it…… Taurus men get really moody too they have these extreme moods where it is like pulling teeth to talk to them or whatever it is almost like bipolar but its not! Just let your Taurus guy that you still care and you want him from time to time and he will come around…… Good luck!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Leo

Leo — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:30:23 +0000

Girls I have to say to all of you that you made my day when I found this site and reading all of your experiences. Please do post as much as you can.

Lionsroar, being a lion myself I really enjoyed your story especially since I can sense your character is very similar to mine. Please come around again and make an update you kind of disappeared? I must tell you that your taurian is very interested in you it is just that he wants you to make the first move into opening up your heart. I admit it is hard for you to do it since you are very proud and afraid of loosing control. But, in that we are similar to the Tauruses males.

Unlike all of you, I have been chased by Taurus males all my life. For some strange reason, they are very drawn to me and I have always found them totally uninteresting and unattractive for me and annoying at that. I have one best male friend Taurus (enjoy his friendship-but absolutely nothing more than that) who I sense has strong affection towards me, I have had once another friend Taurus who was head over heels for me and was so determined and stubborn that he will make me his girlfriend he was really trying hard to do that for 3 years constantly every time we were hanging around (we were in a same friend’s company) he would try to kiss me and every time I would rejected him and it became like a usual habit he will try to kiss me, I will deny him and on and on every time we saw each other he was driving me crazy (but from a negative point of view) until he finally realized that nothing will happen between the two of us.

Once I dated a Taurus but when I met him i hated him so much and couldn’t stand him literally!!! But god damn he was so determined and persistent he will catch me and he decided to turn the whole world in the other direction just to catch me. And I was like in a very difficult period at that time so I opened up my heart to him (but I knew it will be my transitory boyfriend) even though he waned to marry me and see me as a mother who will raise her children on the right path. I escaped from him when I went to another country for indefinite time and he couldn’t impose his subtle control over me any more.

And now just boom!!!! It is like all the bad karma what I have done to the taurian guys is coming back to me!!!

Now I am being a single girl and deep inside me a bit disappointed that I cannot find interesting enough person for me (and I was feeling like guys are not that interested in me any more) and then just out of the blue one astonishingly beautiful guy, and sexy and very confident approaches me with a drink and says “you are so familiar to me from somewhere?” I was like you are so familiar to me too. like I know you but I cannot remember from where and then we started talking about whole our past lives, where we studied where we hanged out and etc trying to find anything in common. (I felt like I know him from our past life but never told him so). We had a great time. Nothing happened and I left home. I didn’t even asked for his name that night out of so much enthusiasm that I met such a guy. Luckily the friends who were with me that night remembered the name of that guy and I quickly found him on myspace. We went out again had a great time and he was showing interest in me very straightforward and was hitting on me all night long and couldn’t take his eyes out of me. All of a sudden a major shift in my life. Lots of men started hitting on me including someone close to him and like all males started behaving like I am the last single girl on this planet earth!!!! Even my old friends started hitting on me saying like “I have no idea what have happened to you but you simply sparkle.” As I am very extroverted person and generous I do not know how to deal with all those males around me and I have to say I AM NOT INTERESTED INTO ANY OF THEM!!! But what is wrong with all those man!?!?!??1?!? Is it possible that love can make such a change in you and so positive change that everybody around can notice?!??!?!

But all of a sudden when this Taurus guy saw so many males around me he withdraw back and I saw him once more and that night both he and his colleague were hitting on me at the same time it just became too complicated for me that I runned away from both of them. After that nothing, he simply disappeared. I texted him though (he always replies to my messages and ssays lets go out and have fun sometime) and that is it. He stopped writing to me and I haven’t seen him for one month. I think he might feel I am not the right for him (that I am very flirtous-socialable too loud and extrovert and etc) and that is why he withdraw and stopped bothering about me (but it is just so very wrong) I am so lustful about him can’t help myself thinking about him every minute of the day. Girls I think I am stuck and I have taken a very very wrong direction and keep drowning in it.
HELP!!!!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 01:29:49 +0000

Confused Libra,
I would cut your losses esp since this guy is married and he is just using you to fulfill his sex life since he doesn’t have much of one at home it sounds like. Taurus men are good at not responding mine doesn’t respond to me either under his own name on yahoo but he will talk to me under his “other personalities” that he has formed to make me think that I am talking to someone else or that I am simply crazy. I wish that they were different but it seems that Taurus men are very insecure about themselves they may not show it when you talk to them but they put on a good front I have noticed too that they are very good bullshi**ers too! Just be careful and watch yourself and make sure that you are not being used, I wouldn’t allow myself to be anyones side girl for anything but that is me and everyone is different! I hope I am not being harsh but I mean well…..

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Confused Libra

Confused Libra — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:56:42 +0000

Hi Girls:

Last week was very much a roller coaster ride with my Taurus. We had saw each other 4 times last week from Sunday to Sunday and I finally built up my courage to talk to him about what was bothering me. He said that he agreed that what we are doing is dangerous (meaning only sees each other once a week and end up having sex) and that we both feel there is more sexual attraction than emotional attraction. I asked if he is willing to work together and bring emotional attraction to good level and he said yes. I asked him what he thinks would be a good way to do so since it’s really hard to leave his children during the week to do anything outside the house with me (it seems like he is caring for his children most of the time, he drops them off and picks them up, she cooks dinner and he takes them for bath and bed). and he might be able to do a couple of hours during the weekend with me and his middle child is having some issues and getting out of hand so he’d like to spend sometime with her to get her back on track. I understand all that and I think it is wonderful that he puts his children first. I also told him that I can not continue to see him if SEX is all there is. He said of course there is more than just sex. I told him that I need more connection during the week and asked him if he is willing to work on it together. He said “I think so”. I told him that i was confused because it’s either i want to work on it or not wanting to work on it. He said yes and that he would like to work on building a relationship together. Even after that talk we had on Saturday night, he still makes no attempt to call me or text me or anything. Last night, it took 3 texts and a voicemail to get him a “thank you, i got it :” text back after dropping off dinner at his place. What is up with this guy? does he just have slower processor.

I made myself clear that I am looking for someone to grow old with and a life partner. If SEX is all there is, i’d rather cut my lost now and stop investing emotionally and physically because this does not work out for me. I also told him that to feel free and say what he wants and that my word is very important to me, i honor my word and hope that we can work on this together too.

It’s been a few days, what do i do now? Patience?

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:27:46 +0000

i wish tat gal replies back , i dont wish a lot , but this i must, its for my own self.,.

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by allspark

allspark — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:25:06 +0000

i love this post …. as far as i have come in my life,
i completely agree with the gal but i still cant believe a
brahmin gal coming out that true…i cant believe a brahmin , either a boy or a gal…are u a brahmin gal?

and 4 all brahmins…i have no hard feelings on ur community
i shall prove all what i m saying is true
to anyone who would like to mail me :avatarblues@gmail.com

Comment on "Brahmin guys are not love/marriage material", Says Brahmin girl by narendran

narendran — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 10:14:49 +0000

I am a non bhramin guy. what that girl has told is a common view with college girls. but that doesnt mean bhramin girls doesnt marry bhramin boys. this same girl one fine morning will sit on her fathers lap while a bhramin guy ties the knot. these decisions and declaration made during college days wont last long. as everybody are saying its immature. but to some of insensitive nonsensical bhramin guys i would like say something. learn to respect other castes and religions. stop boasting bhramin pride. aryan supremecy is one the root cause for mass conversion to christianity. you can feel proud about your community but dont degrade other community.

Comment on Man with 260 horsepower (35,000 men power) by udayms

udayms — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:23:34 +0000

@Peter S.

Boss! Why?

Why turn this into a religious debate. What I found amusing was the man had such prowess. I would have found it amusing if it was about an elephant or a horse or a tiger! It’s got nothing to do with religion.

It’s amusing that a some human being does those things mentioned in the post irrespective of which religion he belongs to or which god he believes in.

My sincere advice – Pls stop converting every conversation into a fanatical debate. That’s the first step in accepting god and his children!

No offense. Just my view on this.

Peace.

Comment on Man with 260 horsepower (35,000 men power) by Peter S.

Peter S. — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 12:09:49 +0000

What’s funny about it?
Is it a lie because of, that he mentioned God?
And it wouldn’t be a lie, if he didn’t mention God?

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 02:30:16 +0000

Whats up guys??? Well I had to start using my old name on yahoo because I am so sick of all the games from my taurus guy. He is trying to spin everything around on my now and make it look like it is all in my head when we talked online. I know that it is him playing games with me. I am sick of the games and everything. I mean come on does he hate me this much or what did I ever do to him to ever deserve this? Why do they act like such jerks?

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:32:47 +0000

I think we girls are all in the same boat here… as for my taurus man I am totally pissed at him and I don’t even want to see him or talk to his alter ego split personalities on yahoo! He needs his meds for sure or something I just want him to be real with me and obviously I guess I am expecting too much because I am not getting it at all. I don’t know if he is doing this for attention or if I was just a game to him but either way I am sick of it. I refuse to be a sidegirl to anyone or anyones doormat. I wish that he would come around but I am thinking its never gonna happen. So it was just wasted time on one man but lesson learned will never do it again and this time be more guarded with who I let in! I still can’t get over he blocked me in the driveway I think he did it to piss me off but oh well he can get the cold shoulder from me from now on!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by saggi girl

saggi girl — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:30:25 +0000

InloveCancer,

nice to know you are an asian too….dating another cultural taurus?????

hope you are doing well with your test..

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Confused Virgo

Confused Virgo — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 03:32:01 +0000

Oh my goodness, it is SUCH a relief to read this!! I have been recently getting to know a Taurus bloke who I really like, and who I believe likes me – but he’s all over the place! One minute he’s calling twice to arrange coffee, the next he’s left the city for 2 weeks and when he gets back, sees me on the street and simply wishes me a good week! Driving me crazy!

That Katy Perry song Hot N Cold never rang so true. But reading these comments has made me see things in a new light – like maybe that’s just the way he is as opposed to how he feels about me… well maybe not, but hey! He just messaged me for coffee so here’s hoping. I’m just not pushing him at all and letting him take things at his pace. This is really hard as I naturally want to know how he feels etc., but I’m being v disciplined! Y’all would be proud.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:30:40 +0000

Was leaving tonight to go somewhere….. My taurus guy is coming home from work I am out in the parking lot leaving he blocks me in so I can’t get out of the driveway! What is his deal? Then since I cant go forward or I will run into him I stop let him pass and he waves as he is looking at me in his rearview mirror! What is with this the guy never pulls in that side of the parking lot there are 2 exits. I cannot believe he did that I was like wtf I gotta go it was like he was not wanting me to leave but when I came home of course he was gone to the bar it is thursday! He is some piece of work my friends make fun of him saying he has DID or something with all of these personalities that he has on yahoo I mean I am beginning to not keep them all straight. Is he that scared or that insecure? I mean my ex had alot of names on yahoo too that he messed with women with when he was drunk or when he was unhappy he had like 4 or 5 different names running on their and he was a pisces. I feel like just dropping him all together but there is just a strong connection but I don’t want to go through this I want someone who is gonna be there for me and I don’t know if he is that someone anymore.

Comment on The TAURUS Man by InloveCancer

InloveCancer — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:28:34 +0000

Hi guys,

I’m back after crazy days with my exams. I’m sorry was so busy to have any comment or update.

Lioness, Im so mad for you, but my Taurus man is the same. Everytime I talk serious things about us and how I feel, how I’m pissed off. All he did was just keep silent, and tell me goodnite. That is ridiculous. You know, everynite, he tell me goodnite, but he didnt do or say anything else beside that. I emotionally gave up already. I don’t think about him alot like before anymore, and I try not to contact or say anything to him. Yet, I’m still waiting to see wat he gonna do when he is back to town. Datz is why I’m hangin there.

I think he doesn’t deserve my love and feelings for him at all. But guys know wat? He keeps calling me baby, I’m so so so so mad. I want to tell him to stop call me baby, but I don’t want to talk about it anymore. So I just tell him goodnite everytime he chat with me. Now he is no longer texting or calling me, not all at. He only chat with me like right before he goes to bed. I really hate him. I’m so tired now with my exams, I just got all done today, now I need to sleep abit. I’ll talk to ya later. BTW I’m Asian too… lolzz

Comment on The TAURUS Man by Lioness

Lioness — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 22:19:40 +0000

Yes thanks guys I agree with the one personality he was kind of a jerk. But he is a wonderful man when he is himself and when he is being real he treats me like a lady never cusses never talks about sex nothing like that but I am tired of the games and now as I am closing the book on one of his other names I go into a chatroom under an alias and yet he finds me again under another name this time he was but a little more truthful to who he is but not much. I am so tired of the games and don’t know what his deal is I feel like I can’t even get on yahoo and find a guy because it is gonna be him pretending to be someone else. Maybe that was his plan to get me off yahoo looking for other men??? I don’t know but I am so tired of being his game and he pushes it to the limits. I think I am just gonna walk away from it before long. He does love sex I realize that. I think that most taurus men do. But he himself has never crossed that line on the subject. He has always had some other name to do that and he was hiding behind so he didnt have to be himself. I don’t know! Can’t tell you what is going through his mind anymore all I know is I am almost to the point of giving up!

Comment on The TAURUS Man by saggi girl

saggi girl — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 15:44:13 +0000

Lioness,

actually, i do not like the part that he says tht he want to meet you and do the thing in a dressing room. when you turned down, he signed off and says nothing…

i think if this is his react, it means only one thing is that he is into sex more than into the communication with you… do you want this???

sorry for being outspoken, but that is what i thought..